October 18, 2014
How do you know when to give up and move on, or just hold on a little longer and wait for things to turn the corner?
Making decisions–why is it so difficult? In many ways I live in the black and white or at least I have in the past. Good/bad, black/white, right/wrong. Boy, that certainly makes choices easier, doesn’t it? If it is not all this, then it is that…and the guillotine comes down as the decision is made. I equate it to math, if it is not right it is wrong.
More recently I have been living in the different shades of gray, and boy there are a lot of them! LOL. Living that way has both good and bad points. In the area of decisions it makes it more difficult because nothing seems clear. Something is good, but is it good enough? Am I making a choice too quickly? Could it be so much better tomorrow? If I make the decision today, I will never know! It makes my head spin at times.This comes up frequently with relationships, romantic in general. But it is not the only place it comes up–friendships, career, job, parenting, exercise, car buying (or large purchases in general), etc.